

I watched CHADKE! INDIA, and it reminded me of a proverb my dad used to say: "Onu kwuni njọ, ne kwu mma."
In simple terms, it means the mouth that has spoken evil will return to speak good. Those who mocked you today may one day be the same people singing your praises. That was the lesson that stayed with me throughout the movie.
The story centres around a hockey player who captained the Indian national team at the World Championship. During a crucial match, he missed a penalty that could have secured victory for his team. Almost immediately, public opinion turned against him. People accused him of being a traitor. Some even claimed he had been bought over by Pakistan, India's opponent. The criticism became so intense that in the community where he and his mother lived, people gathered to drive them out. He was branded a disgrace and a traitor.
Then came a seven-year silence.
Seven years later, he was given an opportunity to coach India's women's hockey team. It was far from an easy assignment. The players came from different parts of the country, carried personal rivalries, and often struggled to work as one team.
Yet he stayed the course.
He trained them, challenged them, pushed them beyond their limitations, and slowly transformed a group of individuals into a united team. In the end, they achieved what no one expected. They won the World Championship. And just like that, everything changed.
The same people who had insulted him, shamed him, and questioned his loyalty were now celebrating him. They praised him as though the past had never happened. It was almost as if everyone had suddenly developed memory loss. The mouth that once spoke evil had begun to speak good.
Watching it reminded me of how fickle human perception can be. People's opinions often rise and fall with circumstances. They celebrate success and quickly forget the seasons that came before it. That is why our lives cannot be built on public opinion. There will always be critics. There will always be people who misunderstand your intentions, question your choices, or write you off too early.
Keep showing up anyway.
Keep doing the work.
Keep pursuing the purpose God has placed before you.
As God gives grace, live fully, live purposefully, and stay committed to the path He has called you to walk. Leave the naysayers alone. In time, many of them may become your loudest supporters. After all, the mouth that mocked you may yet sing your praises.
Sophia Ukoni
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